With Valantines Day fast approaching many peoples thoughts turn to love and attraction. For those of you looking for a lover, partner, or soul mate, the Law of Attraction will be of interest to you. Many however do not know much about the Law of Attraction. Most Law of Attraction techniques for manifesting a fabulous love life include regular visualization, collecting images or creating “vision boards” that reflect our desires, making space for someone new in our lives, scripting about our partner as if they’re already here, etc.While these processes help bring our dreams of love to reality, there are other steps required to allow your ideal partner to appear. If you’re serious about getting the love life you want, follow these six tips:
Desire and Desperation – You need to let go of the desperation,While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation.
What’s holding most people from attracting their love relationship is that in the very next thought they think what’s wrong with me. Let me make this more graphic by example. Cynthia is a client of mine who wants to meet her love match which whom she can build a life. She wants to have a family and her career. So Cynthia is very clear about what she wants. And in the same conversation she tells me about how worried she is because she’s getting older. She doesn’t have that much time to start a family. And wonders if she really can juggle career and family successfully.
Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.Creating a beautiful love life,Once you have let go of any attachment to that person, you have given a very powerful and strong signal to the Universe you are now ready for love in your life. If previously your love was one sided now it’s time to create a both sided relationship. You are a super hero in your theater of the mind. Your movie is in your mind and your movie creates your reality. You have 100% control over your imagination and use this wisely to create a reality of your choice.
You must be a match on the inside before it will show up on the outside. It’s always an inner game. And I hope you’ll be easy with yourself and make it fun. Life is meant to be enjoyed and if you want it with the love of you dreams.Most people don’t realize that the law of attraction works for everything. It’s not just about attracting money, or that new job or car, or any other material thing you may want, it’s about using it to attract everything you want in your life, including attracting love. Since the law of attraction is always on and you’re attracting everything into your life already, why not do so consciously.
You’ll find these tips have one thing in common: creating vibrational alignment with the relationship you dream of. Because “like attracts like,” the power of the Law of Attraction is in aligning vibrationally (your thoughts and emotions) with your desired end result. Follow these steps, and you’re guaranteed to be much closer to getting the love life you want.Law of Attraction relationships tools function in another way for me than for money. When I tried to attain wealth using the Law of Attraction I did so very easily. I even retired young employing these methods. However for romance I was forced to seek extreme law of attraction methods.
Love Yourself First.Every relationship we have, be they the ones from work, play, our communities or our private lives–all of these relationships reflect back to us the love we give ourselves. They will tell you or not whether you are loving yourself first.While this may seem selfish, it is imperative if you are going to partner with someone else. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love another? If you don’t love yourself, how can they love you? When you are in a relationship, you will find that the way that person loves you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself.
Since I had digested every last relationship publication I could find, made sure each and every social event I attended was geared to acquiring love, learned country dancing, obtained cosmetic surgery, hired a “find your soul mate” coach, attended a “Getting Love After 35″ course, I really had exhausted most every traditional method I could find to acquire love.I figured, “What exactly do I have to lose?” In just one week I had the relationship candle magic ritual in my hands and ignited it.The first thing that happened was I relaxed. I decided if this thing was going to work, I would put it to the test. Therefore, I quit venturing out on Friday nights to destinations where I could meet a love interest. Instead I went out with a handful of individuals from the job for a beer at a neighborhood pub.That day, 10 days after doing the love spell, like magic I met a guy who became my significant other for the next eight years!
Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be: zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared? extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly,a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You’s for the Universe.Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.